Go Ahead and Judge Me– when judging others is good

I have grappled with understanding the concept of judgment for a long time.  One of the reasons is that my experience includes negative feelings around being judged.  You know, when others are judgmental– blaming, critical, rejecting, unkind. This, coupled with the fact that I was taught to be nice and a good girl, made me … More Go Ahead and Judge Me– when judging others is good

When Advice Sucks

I know we’ve all gotten some stellar advice along the way, whether unsolicited or sought out.  But seriously, we probably get WAY too much advice that has the opposite effect than what good folks intend. Can you tell which of the following is non-sucky advice? How should you respond when someone confides in you she … More When Advice Sucks